Ok - the OP was a year ago so I hope he got the info he needed.

This said, it's a good topic and worth giving it good run through. I guess I'm one of a few old timers here who open carries a lot so you would think that would put me on the side lines when it comes to "discreetly carrying" a pistol(?) not so, many of us old timers are sneaky, grouchy, old bastards and tend to carry a secondary pistol (or more)... so technically, we're Hybrid carriers. I'll tell you what I avoid vs what I do so you can make your own choices on what works best for you.
What I avoid: (1)Small of back carry. Why? For me ( a firm follower of Mr. Murphy's gun fighting school) should things go really wrong & I end up falling backwards for some reason(? blood, motor oil, etc...) I really don't want that really hard metal slide or cylinder to fracture my spine, if it can be avoided.
(2) Appendix carry (aka crotch carry). Yes I know they make really good holsters for it these days, but, I am a firm believer all of the cardinal safety rules of firearm handling, one of which states: "Never point a firearm at anything you are not willing to destroy!" Now I don't know about you guys(?) but I'm not ready to destroy my nuts or dick any time soon!
My primary pistol is usually a double stack 45acp backed up by a smaller, yet mag compatible smaller brother, then a pocket pistol & at times a shoulder rig pistol. This is all done by choosing the clothing to fit around your gun(s) to wear that: you can deploy them easily, yet still have some cover & air flow. So no, I don't buy pistols to fit my "skinny jeans" as one of our more metro-sexual-ish style conscious posters put here once some years ago...
